There are many things you can do to improve a troubled relationship and seek marriage failure help. The first and most obvious is be nice to your partner, when was the last time you made a romantic gesture or simply did something which made their lives easier or pleasanter, you never know they might return the favor. Spending time together and communicating is the key to healing a marriage. If you need to communicate a problem with your partner’s behavior think carefully beforehand so as to phrase it so that it doesn’t sound like an accusation or an attack or go to far the other way appearing sarcastic. Listen as well as talk and avoid raising you voice to keep the communication calm and flowing between you.